this is the first time my husband has ever written a long letter for me, usually sa mga maliliit na cards lang everytime he would give me presents ( ung isa pa dun naitapon ni mama! kainis). i love you
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This is the husband of NRQ, who is the owner of this blogspot. I have never been interested in reading blogs…as in never since the advent of internet (you can imagine how many decades ago that was!). nevertheless, since me and my honey became officially US, I started to read his blogs starting from the very first entry up to the dora’s box thingy….surprisingly, I got so amused by it and I even told my honey that I’m already a fan of his blogspot and I always look forward to his latest entries…of course, I try to be discreet in letting him know that he has a fan in me coz he might really get conceited and self-centered! (uyy,,,nanglilisik na naman ang mata niyan!)love you hon!
I don’t know if he will post this or not but the most important thing is that I want to show the readers of this blog my appreciation and how lucky and thankful I am for having such a self-centered, monosynaptic, ADHD afflicted, and paraphiliac as my honey and lifetime partner. All of us have our own flaws. Physical, psychological, emotional. Name them. We both have them. What’s good about our relationship is that we don’t look at these as imperfections and as things to hate, but rather, things to accept and to love wholeheartedly. (Oh, I forgot to mention that we both love to laugh. I mean a lot. Call it MANIA. but that’s what keeps us going.) However flawed we are, we just know how to make fun of the littlest blessings (good and bad circumstances) that we have. My honey is so child-like that sometimes, I tend to be like a damn father figure for him! hehehehe...I appreciate it a lot when he would consult me first prior to arriving at any life-changing decisions like where to take his medical boards review, what color of contact lens fits him best, what to wear, etc.etc. (The last two examples are Life changing daw oh! ) Anyway, I also appreciate it a lot when he asks me about things that he do not have a grasp of yet (like corporate ethics, management of certain diseases, how to handle people, financial management etc.) and it makes me want to teach him more about different facts of corporate life. For that, I love him so much because he knows and he recognizes his limitations and he is very open to learn more about different aspects of professional life. At this early stage in his life, I can see that he is really born with great leadership skills that’s why I’m so eager to train him to become a great leader coz I know, sooner than I expect, he will really be one of the best doctors in the country and could also be one hell of a corporate doctor executive (if he chooses the path of corporate medicine) who can change the lives of others in a positive light.
I still have a lot of good things (and bad, like he doesn’t eat vegetables, drinks a lot of coffee which causes him gastritis and hyperacidity, he smokes too much which makes him breath like he’s always puffing cigarettes, hehehe) to say about my honey, but one thing is for sure…no matter how imperfect (but a great guy) you are and no matter how painful your past experiences with your ex’s were, I will always be here to support you in all of your aspirations in life.
I have never been very vocal about my feelings but you made me believe in BLOGS, which is the new-age form of expression of emotions and thoughts and this is reason why I am writing an entry for you as your husband….J. I have learned to appreciate its relevance in our relationship because this is where I can revisit your thoughts and emotions and this is where I can be assured (in documented form!) that what we have right now is not just a thing of the present but something to look forward to in the future and cherish for the rest of our lives.
SHOWBIZ FANS CAN BE BRANDED AS BADUY or bakya or pang-masa. I can be qualified as such from now on because I am a fan of my honey, who was an ex-showbiz child star and a wanna-be rock star singer, and I'm always looking forward to his BLOGS, just like a die hard fan of Nora Aunor who is waiting for her next movie project after the well acclaimed HIMALA and NAGLALAYAG....That's how I feel now..So, write more BLOGS honey!!!!!!!!
I love you with all my heart.
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